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My name is Mindy and I am a wife and mother of 2 boys, Ages 20 and 12. I recently started on the path of becoming a nurse something i have wanted to do since i was 11 !

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Tuesday, December 16, 2008


I put up a poll i would like ya'lls opinions !
Should I lose more weight ? I have 11 more pds to get to my "original" goal of 125 .
If i lose 6 more that puts me at 130 which I could be happy with .
Or Should i stay where i am at 136 and see how things go ?
PLEASE be honest ?


  1. It's just numbers at the end of the day, I think the important thing is for you to be happy and comfotable in your own skin, only you know when enough is enough.

    Having said that, you are look pretty damn HOT!!


  2. Yeah, what Zena said. I hope I get to the point eventually where I won't focus on a number because, frankly, I have no idea what number I will feel best at. In high school I was 120. However, that was 25 years and one child ago. I may look anorexic at 120 now at 43 years old. How do YOU feel about where you're at right now? Because at the end of the day, that's all that matters.

  3. Thanks ya'll. Ya know im not real sure how i feel about my weight right now . I AM happy with my weight and the amount I have lost.
    I also think i would be happy if i lost the last 11 . I just do not know.
    ya'll are so very sweet

  4. I'm not sweet, I'm ENVIOUS!! LOL No, seriously, you look SO fantastic. Whatever you feel happy at is what is right for you. Don't be so hung up on a number. We've done that long enough, no? ;)

  5. oh dont be envious be MOTIVATED !
    That's all I want from anyone reading my blog ! But i understand what you mean . I have always focused more on #'s . Some people focus on a size . But I have always focused in on the # . For instance i thought " i want to get to such and such size " well that could mean SO many things and weights to lots of people. So The weight was what i wanted because after 140 i was "Normal" .
    But im "normal"now so its kind of like now what LOL

  6. Hey! Ditto on everything said so far! Here's what I suggest based on my own experience. Consider staying where you are right now and maintaining it for the next 90 days. (I actually found maintaining was harder than losing! But that has always been the case for me. Something about it being a different type goal, etc.) Anyway, at the end of the 90 days then make a determination. I'd then suggest doing the 6 (I think that's what it was) and then sitting there for a bit. My two cents for what it's worth! Fluffy